My grand mother's husband took a video of me once without my consent or knowledge (he hid the camera in a box with a hole) while i was taking a shower at their house, and i later found out by pure luck. He was prosecuted but to this day i'm weary of old men, men in general, i suspect every nice gesture to be a disguise for perverse motives and i still have nightmares about him showing up at my house or raping me even though that happened two years ago.